I've had many clients ask me this question, usually preceded by, 'I know this may be a stupid question but, ......."

Well Lovies, there is no such thing as a stupid question. ;o)

Now, I know losing someone close to you can be very difficult. I suggest that if there hasn't been at least 3 months since they have passed, that you wait to contact them because:

1. This person has been up-rooted from the body & life they are accustomed too. As you can imagine, it would take some adjusting to the changes that have happened from the physical to the spiritual world. The physical world and the spiritual world have different 'rules'. For example, a decade here in our time, is like a blink to them.

2. Depending on the circumstances of their demise, they may not have completely descended yet.  Its kind of complicated, but they may still be sticking around the earth to help you and other loved ones move forward. Three months is usually the time when our grief seems to lesson, and they are able to start their journey through the different dimensions.

3. If they have descended, they may still be in what I call 'Transition Time'. This is a period of time where the person who has passed away is focused on the reviewing of their life & may not be able to communicate well or at all.

4. If you are looking to hear from a specific person, waiting for a sign from them is very important. When you receive a sign from them, you'll know that they are ready to communicate, and that the chances of them being present for your reading would be much more likely. Ideally, this is the best way to know when you should book time with the medium you feel drawn to.

I suggest a minimum of 3 months time because in most cases, they are not ready to communicate before that time. Having said that "time" is not the best indicator, but "indisputable signs" they want to communicate with you is. What are indisputable signs? They come be coming to you in your dreams or in your everyday life you may see constant signs/reminders that are out of the ordinary. You're always welcome to book and try, but I'd like you to get the best connection possible.  I hope this makes sense to you, and I'd be delighted to answer any questions you may have about it.

In the mean time, please keep talking to this person. People on the other side hear us when we talk to them! So talk to them as though they can hear you. This will help them to move forward on their journey and give them energy. It will also comfort them as much as it will comfort you.

I hope this helps answer a few of those lingering questions. As I say, there are no stupid questions. As always, I send love & light to you and your loved ones, no matter what world we are in.

xo Truly

Hello Lovies! Happy Holidays to you. 

As I'm sure it's been a busy end of year in your house the same goes here. My family and I have been on the run for at least 2 months now. I typically work 6 days a week, but have 4 in a row off this week so I thought I'd celebrate with a new blog. :)

As some of you know I have a little guy (Thomas, T or Sir) who is about 2. He's a whole lot of fun and we are so lucky to have him. No doubt he will be a very gifted Medium if he so chooses to persue his gifts. Last week I had to show him how to ask spirit to leave. I've see T play with spirit (my dad, my husbands dad, even my step grandma Marg), but I've never seen him upset by spirit. It was the 1st evening I had been home in a while. I was busy preparing for company the next day when T came running in the kitchen. He was crying and immediately grabbed my leg. I bent down to comfort him and see what the matter was. I honestly thought he hit his head or pinched a finger or something to that effect. I was taken back when he said to me 'bad guy mummy, bad guy'. That's strange I thought. I started trying to remember the last time I cleared the house (about 3 days before). I hugged T and asked him if he would show me. Brave little solider that he is took me by my hand and lead me to our hall way. He pointed up, close to the ceiling and sure enough we had an unexpected guest. It was a lower level vibration (recently deceased spirit) who was looking for a way back into the light. I keep my home very protected as a rule and was in shock that they were able to get in. I bent down and T wrapped his arms around my neck still nervous. I told the spirit it was not welcome here and it was not ok that it was scaring my son. I asked it why it was here? It went on to tell me that it had recently crossed and was too scared to go into the light then, but now couldn't even find the light. While it was wandering, looking for the light, it saw my light. I guess even though I don't have a neon sign in the physical, I do in the spiritual lol. With T still around my neck I picked him up and stood. "Now T watch" I said. "We are going to help send them home where they belong." He nodded and seemed to calm down a bit. With that I started a prayer. I asked God, the Angels and my Spirit guides to protect us and help me open a portal to the other side to let this lost soul in. I asked Arc Angel Micheal to come and show it the way home. My hall way became extremely bright for 6 pm in the end of December. The spirit, thankfully did not come in much past the front door, and now there was a big beautiful portal filled with light between us (think of a black hole in space, but filled with light). It thanked me, apologized for scaring T and intruding. It gently passed through the light and was gone. I prayed again that it would have safe passage and that we could close the portal now. The portal began to shrink until it just dissapeared, like a speck of dust. I again thanked God, the Angels and my Spirit guides for helping me and for keeping us safe. I also asked them to re-secure my home so that I would not have anymore unannounced guests. I looked down at T who was still hanging on to my neck. He smiled at me and said 'bad guy gone". He gave me a kiss on the cheek and wriggled till I put him down. Off to play as his cars were waiting. You would have never known there was a 'bad guy' to begin with. 

Sending a spirit home is all about intention. Ask for protection. When you ask God, the Angels and your guides to help they can help you do almost anything. Including helping a soul go home. 

Anyway that's just another day in the life of a Medium. Or as my girlfriend Siobhan says its #MediumProblems.
Well lovies, thanks for reading and all the best to you and yours in the new year. 

Love & Light,
Truly