I hope you all are well and with good spirits (lol).
Recently I have come across a few people who are trying to break the ties that bind, so to speak. Every person is different, and so is every situation. More and more I'm finding that we are all feeling the need to let go of people and relationships that are not serving any purpose. The only challenge with this is that there is almost always some sort of emotional tie that keeps us hanging on. There is a way to lessen the emotional attachment, so that you can move on with your life. I don't remember who told me this, or where I may have read it, but I need to share this with you. If / when I do, I will certainly give credit where it is due. This is not my technique, but I recognize how powerful and truly needed it is.
Cutting the Cords
We are all energy. We have energy centers within the body called chakras. One of the chakras is at the belly button, precisely where the soul is anchored to the body. When you were conceived, you had a umbilical cord that ran from your belly button to your mothers placenta (life sac). This cord kept you alive, kept you connected and nourished you with energy, blood, and nutrients. After you are born, this physical cord is cut, but the spiritual/metaphysical cord remained. This is where you connect with all people. This is where the spirit connects with other spirits.
So, for every connection we make, a silver cord comes from your belly button and extends out to the other person's belly button (very similar to the connection you had with your mother). The stronger the bond or tie between you, the more cords..... for example:
Spouse, Partners, Parents, Children, Siblings = 3 Cords
Good friends, Best Friends, Cousins, Some Co-Workers = 2 Cords
Acquaintances = 1 Cord
So, when we understand that we are metaphysically tied together, it makes much more sense to release the tie, so that the emotional/spiritual aspect can let it go.
To cut the ties, you need to get into a meditative state. Clear your mind and remove all other distractions. Then, imagine yourself in a neutral space, (a park, cafe, by the lake). Now, imagine the other person standing in front of you. Welcome them, and start a dialogue. Talk to this person, tell them how you feel, what you need, or just what you need to clear. Once you have cleared the air, you can invite them to do the same if you wish. When this has been done, you then need to see the cords between you. Most of the time, people are cutting cords with someone they love, but need to let go of, so there are usually at least 2, but probably 3 cords between you. Decide how many you'd like to cut, but don't feel like you need to cut them all at the same time. You may still want this person in your life, but not with such an emotional tie. When you have decided, I want you to reach into your pocket or bag, and pull out a pair of scissors or a pocket knife. You then cut the cord(s). You will not feel any physical pain, but you may feel a sense of release, as if a burden has been lifted. Make sure you tell this person that they are still loved (because we really do love everyone, even the ones we struggle with). Also thank them for sharing this experience and lesson with you. Let them go back to where ever they were, and take a moment to thank yourself for allowing this to change. When your ready come back to the here and now.
You may need to do this a few times, and as I said, you may not want to cut all ties at the same time. If you have any questions, feel free to email me & ask. This technique is a combination of a few things: hypnosis, meditation, & visualization. Remember, Thoughts ARE Things, and so if your intention is to let this person go, this is what will happen.
Well, I gotta run, T is calling and as much as I love you guys, I love him a little more. lol. Understandable I'm sure. Drop me a line, let me know how it works. I'm here for you.
Love & Light, xoxo Truly