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  Truly Medium

I've Lost a Loved One, WHY WAIT to Contact Them? 

1/28/2013

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I've had many clients ask me this question, usually preceded by, 'I know this may be a stupid question but, ......."

Well Lovies, there is no such thing as a stupid question. ;o)

Now, I know losing someone close to you can be very difficult. I suggest that if there hasn't been at least 3 months since they have passed (better if a year), that you wait to contact them because:

1. This person has been up-rooted from the body & life they are accustomed too. As you can imagine, it would take some adjusting to the changes that have happened from the physical to the spiritual world. The physical world and the spiritual world have different 'rules'. For example, a decade here in our time, is like a blink to them.

2. Depending on the circumstances of their demise, they may not have completely descended yet.  Its kind of complicated, but they may still be sticking around the earth to help you and other loved ones move forward. Three months is usually the time when our grief seems to lesson, and they are able to start their journey through the different dimensions.

3. If they have descended, they may still be in what I call 'Transition Time'. This is a period of time where the person who has passed away is focused on the reviewing of their life & may not be able to communicate well or at all.

4. If you are looking to hear from a specific person, waiting for a sign from them is very important. When you receive a sign from them, you'll know that they are ready to communicate, and that the chances of them being present for your reading would be much more likely. Ideally, this is the best way to know when you should book time with the medium you feel drawn to.

I suggest a minimum of 3 months time because in most cases, they are not ready to communicate before that time. Having said that "time" is not the best indicator, but "indisputable signs" they want to communicate with you is. What are indisputable signs? They come be coming to you in your dreams or in your everyday life you may see constant signs/reminders that are out of the ordinary. You're always welcome to book and try, but I'd like you to get the best connection possible.  I hope this makes sense to you, and I'd be delighted to answer any questions you may have about it.

In the mean time, please keep talking to this person. People on the other side hear us when we talk to them! So talk to them as though they can hear you. This will help them to move forward on their journey and give them energy. It will also comfort them as much as it will comfort you.

I hope this helps answer a few of those lingering questions. As I say, there are no stupid questions. As always, I send love & light to you and your loved ones, no matter what world we are in.

xo Truly
14 Comments
Amanda Mitchell
1/26/2013 05:17:58 am

Thank you Truly. I needed that *hug*

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Claudette
12/5/2013 11:16:33 am

I totally agree that yes to soon may result in lack of messages but curiously when somebody has been passed for say forty years, is there a rule of thumb when their passing has been a long time? I often wonder if re-incarnation is part of the cycle, then after forty years perhaps your loved one has come into a new life......that being the case..........then it would be impossible to contact their spirit.....have you ever experienced this scenario where others connected have told you that the person your looking for is back on earth again? People say I am a deep thinker....lmao....

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Lynda zollen
12/27/2018 02:53:40 pm

I wondered about the reincarnation thing to. Then they won’t be there at all for you

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shannan
10/28/2014 10:27:38 am

I would like to male an appointment as soon as possible. Preferable this week, please help me. The deceased has passed over 3 months ago and have tried to contact many times

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Angela
3/15/2015 03:15:14 am

Hi Truly, there is no link to your "Boook an appointment" tab. Please contact me as I need to book an appointment with you asap. Thanks

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Lynda Zollen
12/27/2018 02:54:45 pm

ASAP is unfortunately 22 months now

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Truly
3/15/2015 03:23:39 am

http://www.trulymedium.com/contact-me.html

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Maria
3/16/2015 01:10:41 am

Hi Truly, I've had a few signs. A smell, a computer turn on when it was off and a particular song which plays many times on several different stations. It's been about 7 weeks she the passing. Do you think it's too soon?

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Mackenzie
1/7/2017 09:32:00 pm

Hi truly, its been 2 weeks and 2 days since my big brother passed, the other night i was sitting on my floor organizing clothes and i felt like someone had put their hand just above my knee, was that him? It lasted exactly 1 minute and then i was cold. I miss him and am desperately looking for signs that he is here with me.

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Mary Stclair
4/11/2020 08:25:06 am

I miss my brother and want him to speak to him how can I I am poor

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Sarah Glass
7/9/2021 07:17:20 pm

How can I be added to your wait list for an appointment. I recently lost my Father suddenly and have so many unanswered questions. I can’t move forwards without having some comfort that he is okay.

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Andria
11/22/2021 05:04:41 pm

Are you able to connect with pets that have passed as well?

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Katie
11/17/2023 07:28:49 pm

What if a loved one has passed who said they were atheist? Is it still possible to have them communicate? I'd be greatly interested in finding out. Thank you

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Lucy Quartarone
1/14/2024 03:47:02 am

I would like to book a private reading. I receive signs daily.

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